Friday, March 26, 2010

"I'm going to be 6 years old. . . "

ALL DAY MOM!!!



And she was, she was six all throughout her day. Grandpa Hill (the other birthday guy) brought her some lunch to school, she woke up to a house that was decorated just for her, had some special pancakes, had a BIG birthday dinner at Tucano's then came back home and opened up LOTS and LOTS of presents from everyone! It was a great day, and now today. . . she is still 6 and a little bit taller!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Appropriate.


So this year. . . Savanah is turning 6.

In TWO days to be EXACT.

SIX!

Where does the time go? Anywho. . . the theme of her party this year. . .

RAINBOWS!

(lots and lots of rainbows. . . )

Rainbow cake, rainbow cupcakes, rainbow balloons, wrapping paper, decorations.

The reason being. . . Savanah is my coloful rainbow child.

Each of the colors of the rainbow shines through in her personality and we absolutely love EVERY color of her.

ALL 6'ness of her. Geez!

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

A little more explanation regarding CMV. . .per Wikipedia.

Pregnancy and congenital infection

Micrograph of a cytomegalovirus (CMV) infection of the placenta (CMV placentitis). The characteristic large nucleus of a CMV infected cell is seen off-centre at the bottom-right of the image. H&E stain.HCMV is one of the TORCH infections that lead to congenital abnormalities. These are: toxoplasmosis, rubella, herpes simplex, and cytomegalovirus. Congenital HCMV infection occurs when the mother suffers a primary infection (or reactivation) during pregnancy. Due to the lower seroprevalence of HCMV in industrialized countries and higher socioeconomic groups, congenital infections are actually more common in poorer communities, where more women of child-bearing age are already seropositive. In industrialized countries up to 8% of HCMV seronegative mothers contract primary HCMV infection during pregnancy, of which roughly 50% will transmit to the fetus.[10] Between 22-38% of infected fetuses are then born with symptoms,[11] which may include pneumonia, gastrointestinal, retinal and neurological disease.[12][13] HCMV infection occurs in roughly 1% of all neonates with those who are not congenitally infected contracting the infection possibly through breast milk.[14][15][16] Other sources of neonatal infection are bodily fluids which are known to contain high titres in shedding individuals: saliva (<107copies/ml) and urine (<105copies/ml )[17][18] seem common routes of transmission.

The incidence of primary CMV infection in pregnant women in the United States varies from 1% to 3%. Healthy pregnant women are not at special risk for disease from CMV infection. When infected with CMV, most women have no symptoms and very few have a disease resembling infectious mononucleosis. It is their developing fetuses that may be at risk for congenital CMV disease. CMV remains the most important cause of congenital viral infection in the United States. HCMV is the most common cause of congenital infection in humans and intrauterine primary infections are second only to Down's syndrome as a known cause of mental retardation.[19]

For infants who are infected by their mothers before birth, two potential adverse scenarios exist:

Generalized infection may occur in the infant, and can cause complications such as low birth weight, microcephaly, seizures, petechial rash similar to the "blueberry muffin" rash of congenital rubella syndrome, and moderate hepatosplenomegaly (with jaundice). Though severe cases can be fatal, with supportive treatment most infants with CMV disease will survive. However, from 80% to 90% will have complications within the first few years of life that may include hearing loss, vision impairment, and varying degrees of mental retardation.
Another 5% to 10% of infants who are infected but without symptoms at birth will subsequently have varying degrees of hearing and mental or coordination problems.
However, these risks appear to be almost exclusively associated with women who previously have not been infected with CMV and who are having their first infection with the virus during pregnancy. Even in this case, two-thirds of the infants will not become infected, and only 10% to 15% of the remaining third will have symptoms at the time of birth. There appears to be little risk of CMV-related complications for women who have been infected at least 6 months prior to conception. For this group, which makes up 50% to 80% of the women of child-bearing age, the rate of newborn CMV infection is 1%, and these infants appear to have no significant illness or abnormalities.[1]

The virus can also be transmitted to the infant at delivery from contact with genital secretions or later in infancy through breast milk. However, these infections usually result in little or no clinical illness in the infant.

To summarize, during a pregnancy when a woman who has never had CMV infection becomes infected with CMV, there is a potential risk that after birth the infant may have CMV-related complications, the most common of which are associated with hearing loss, visual impairment, or diminished mental and motor capabilities. On the other hand, infants and children who acquire CMV after birth have few, if any, symptoms or complications.

Recommendations for pregnant women with regard to CMV infection:

Throughout the pregnancy, practice good personal hygiene, especially handwashing with soap and water, after contact with diapers or oral secretions (particularly with a child who is in day care).
Women who develop a mononucleosis-like illness during pregnancy should be evaluated for CMV infection and counseled about the possible risks to the unborn child.
Laboratory testing for antibody to CMV can be performed to determine if a women has already had CMV infection.
Recovery of CMV from the cervix or urine of women at or before the time of delivery does not warrant a cesarean section.
The demonstrated benefits of breast-feeding outweigh the minimal risk of acquiring CMV from the breast-feeding mother.
There is no need to either screen for CMV or exclude CMV-excreting children from schools or institutions because the virus is frequently found in many healthy children and adults

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Venting. . .

Okay so I've had it.

PEOPLE who are PREGNANT. . . your twenty week ultrasound appointment is not to determine the sex of your baby whatsoever!

That appointment is meant for finding out vital things about the baby. Healthy heart, lungs, limbs etc!!!


For anyone that has had a disabled child, I am sure you know the exact frustration I am ranting about. The mothers and fathers out there, who did everything right in their pregnancy, diet, exercise, pre-natals and had the dissappointing news of finding out that child will be faced with a disability for the rest of their lives. We know how it feels to just want a heatlthy baby, especially if you had more children following your disabled child.


I wish people could wake up a little bit and be grateful that they are even pregnant, ( I lost my third pregnancy this year at 9 1/2 weeks). There are couples on this earth who cannot concieve on their own, and rely on other methods and sometimes it doesn't even happen for them then. I also just wish, after they leave their 20-week appointment, I hope they can breathe a sigh of relief that the baby is healthy and be happy if it's just another girl after they've already had two other little girls at home BUT they so DESPERATELY wanted a boy.


I would not trade my Savanah for anything in this entire WORLD, the experiences I have learned from parenting a deaf child are far too precious. But I will tell you this. . . for those of you who have never experienced it and are dissapointed with your gender outcome. . .please just think about the little boy that was born with spina bifida, the little girl who will never be able to walk, the boy who is deaf and blind, the little girl that will only live minutes on this earth because of a heart defect. After you think about them and what their parents must be feeling. . . you all might change your minds.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Yep, she's still here. . .


Bet you all were wondering where the star of the show has been. She's still here, just getting over a cold, going back to school, looking forward to spring and her bithday and oh yeah, sleeping over at Grandma's house this Saturday night. . . but yep, she's still here and turning into more of a young woman everyday. Love ya Savanah.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Just thrilled!

I just have to say how thrilled I am to have found www.stopcmv.com

I cannot tell you how lonely it has been for us as a family to not have anyone know what CMV is and to have professionals tell us so little about it.

We know Savanah contracted it somewhere near the end of my pregnancy. We know that I contracted it POSSIBLY throught the pre-school I was working at. We know it POSSIBLY caused her deafness. We also know that she did pass it on to my mother 6 months after she was born. And we KNOW that she is not infectious anymore.

I am watched carefully for this virus during my pregnancies. I have to see a perinatologist. They have to look at the baby over and over again, making sure everyting checks out and that this baby is in the clear.

Now for those of you who know me, please know this. . .there is nothing anyone can do if you do get CMV during your pregnancy. BUT the whole point of STOP CMV - The CMV Action Network is PREVENTION! SPREADING the word! You never hear about this virus in your OB's office, because they can't do anything for it BUT you can!

Please if you know me, or don't know me and if you care about Savanah and any child out there. Or if you are pregnant or know someone who is, please check that website out and educate people. You have no idea what a difference you could make.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Tick-Tock


Just had to vent for a minute. . .

Something extremely frustrating about raising a deaf child, is their inability to hear alarm clocks. Therefor, I believe that is why Savanah is that much more difficult to wake up in the morning.

What am I going to do when she is a teenage?!? Oh.